“What I do remember with stunning clarity is that I did not cry,” Harry wrote in his memoir, after describing the “decades of effort to reconstruct that morning” he had gone through. No one wept. I never felt an embrace from my dad. One royal insider said that the former working royals were “using Mummy once again,” but this contradicts that story.

This realization comes after the prince’s May 8 visit to Britain, during which he reunited with relatives from his mother’s side at St. Paul’s Cathedral for an Invictus Games ceremony.

Charles, Earl Spencer, Diana’s brother, supposedly “sided” with Harry and Meghan Markle in their recent feud with the royal family, but Diana’s memory lives on via their descendants.

According to royal expert Tom Quinn, Harry’s mother’s family’s presence at the occasion was a clear indication of their devotion. “The Spencers continue to perceive the royal family, to a certain degree, as an enemy,” Harry said.